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Hmm... This is interesting. One thing I would try is to tape record the telephone conversation with the currant gal you're talking to. That was, you can listen to it, and see where you went wrong, and what you did right. Just be sure to check if tape recording a conversation without the other party's permission is legal in your state (it's illegal here in CA).
Also, the best advice I've hear, is that the first time you call her, just talk. Don't set a date. Just talk like before where you met her. Then ask her out on the second phone call.
I remember a guy who rarely had gals calling him. Because everytime he'd call her, he was trying to get something from her (a date). And since he started calling just to chat, his phone is ringing off the hook.
Simply put, if one thing isn't working for you, try something else. You can't expect to use the same method to achive different results.
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