ASU2003

What are you saying when you leave them a message? Are you asking them out right away, or do you say, "There is this party I am going to this weekend, I think you should go too. I have had some interesting things happen in the past few days"...

As for your questions.

1. Yes I hate that too, just like I'm not going to read that thread "Losing interest in having sex with my girlfriend". Since both of us have never had sex, I can't understand why anybody wouldn't have sex with a willing girl. I bet you have the same thoughts about that.

2. Nothing you can do but be an interesting person that girls are attracted to.

3. Do some research and look inside yourself and figure out why.

4. True, you will never have the large concentration of women your age that you can have something in common with right away.

5. That is your fault. One of my must haves when I was picking a school was hot girls. Arizona State is a pretty safe bet. Didn't help me much though. And there are hot girls everywhere.

6. Put your energy into working out and exercising. Or go to therapy.

There is a very likely possibility that finding a girl will be harder after college. The main place is at bars and on-line now.