Originally Posted by james t kirk

Here's the simple hard truth.

She's not going to change. She may change under duress possibly, but it will be only for a moment and then she will go back to her old self. Kind of like an elastic band can stretch, but sooner or later, it goes back to what it was.

So, here are your options.

1. Accept it and come to terms with the fact that you are never going to get any action other than intercourse or.

2. Leave her cause it just aint cutting it.

If you choose option 2 - Here's what will probably happen....assuming she still wants a relationship with you. She will come to you all teary eyed and try to get you to change your mind. As an enticement, she will try to suck your cock, but will almost die trying. It will be terrible for her and worse for you because you will feel like an ogre for forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do. Eventually, she will go back to exactly how she was before. (The elastic band theory.)

If you accept it, here's what will PROBABLY happen as time goes on. She will lose interest in even intercourse. Especially if you have kids with her. The mothering gene will turn on, and the intercourse gene will turn off. She will tell you that vaginas are for delivering babies, etc.

So, you decide what you want.

My theory is that people's sexuality is often times carved in stone at a very young age. She has some deep seated phobias about the body and I really doubt that is going to change ever.

My advice to you is to start looking for a new girlfriend.