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This is rough, how could she see herself marrying you when she won't even do things sexually for you to make you happy. It is very hard to change someones upbringing when it comes to sexual stuff, I somewhat compare it to trying to convert a Christian to a Muslim, its just a really different way of being brought up, and might be possible but highly unlikely to happen.
Counseling could be good, but she sounds pretty immature if she won't even touch you, or allow you to go down on her, let alone go and discuss it with a professional.
Girls would kill for their guys to go down on them more often like you say you want to, sounds like she doesn't appreciate whats lying next to her at night.
I don't know about other women, but I try to show appreciatiation for my guy as often as I feel like it whether its just a tap on the ass or whatever, dunno he likes it but I like it, so until mentioned otherwise I'll continue.
Logic tells me you should put down a date that things need to start changing or else you'll be changing your girl. Sounds harsh, but what else can you do, I do NOT suggest going on in this relationship if she continues to ignore your needs, that is not right to do to anyone. She should appreciate you, and if she loves you she should want to make you happy.
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