Sounds like her upbringing was seriously flawed....she doesn't like sex, she likes fucking, because she's been taught that genitals have particular functions and they're for nothing but. Has she ever had a true orgasm? I'd be willing to bet what she thinks is 'getting off', isn't, in that respect.
I agree with the sex counselling, but if she's that uptight, she probably won't go for it.
Can you engage any of her friends to talk with her openly? She needs to relearn about the body and its pleasures; pressure from you, even if it's only perceived as such, will only shut her down more.
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