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Other than what everyone I have heard say here, my best suggestion would be a sex counsoler. Don't rule it out, seriously. Some people have serious mental hangups that have developed over the way they were brought up...etc. For example I dated one young lady who never masturbated. She thought it was gross. After talking to her about it a LOT I came to discover that her mom caught her once when she was younger and nearly beat the hell out of her, and told her she was going to go to Hell for it! So she was actually terrified about doing it. After talking to her more and taking things slowly, KNOWING this information, we were able to not only get her to relax and enjoy it, but within a few weeks the girl was doing it 4 or 5 times a day, and I SWEAR she had a footlocker full of sex toys within a year! So definately talk to her about it, ask her to give you more details, not that it is just gross, but DETAILS about why she came to believe it? I am assuming that she doesn't masturbate, if she doesn't like you to finger her, so maybe that is a way to get her started talking about it. GOOD LUCK!
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