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Some women have hang ups with this sort of stuff. I personally don't think it's out of the "norm" with some females. Years ago, even I had some hang ups about it, but I had young children at home and sometimes just having sex was all I cared about.
I think once I got going with life and our relationship and the more I read about these things....plus with the boss being out of town a good bit in our early years, I wanted to make it a fantastic experience for him since he was not home much. And to tell you the truth, I wanted our marriage to work. So, I dug in and thought of ways to make it not only just "sex" but a fantastic night/weekend for us.
As the years went by, I felt more secure and began to realize that the boss actually enjoyed and WANTED to touch me in ways I wouldn't really like in the past. Soon I realized that I enjoyed the whole experience and what we had was really special.
But, I also know I'm a giver in many ways other than sex. As in many things, it takes two parties to make a compromise or at least come to an agreement inorder to make a relationship work. This also includes what happens between the sheets.
She will have to first get rid of her hang ups Blah. I'm not sure how you will get her to overcome these things unless you give her articles/books or some information that will make her understand the workings of both the minds and the bodies of men and women.
Another thing is, she needs to learn to care about what you want and need. And understand that it's not really a selfish thing on your part but that you want to have the full experience(s) that can come by giving alot of yourself to the person you really care and love. To me, anything goes as long as the other person is willing.
As far as I'm concerned, you aren't asking anything that any normal male wouldn't want.
Good luck,
SB
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