abaya

Well, as I already said in my post, it wasn't me who thought there was a difference between a secular and an atheist wedding. It was my husband who said there was a difference, at least in his mind.

And an "atheist" wedding, to him, would have been more activist, if not militant, in promoting atheism as a worldview. Whereas, a secular wedding simply abstained from promoting anything in particular (other than the coolness of our relationship ), including atheism. My husband is not a militant atheist; in fact, he is mostly an achristian and amuslim, if you will, and did not want anything referring to either religion.

But perhaps I should stop speaking for him.

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