I have a road map of stretch marks on my belly from 2 pregnancies and losing weight. They cause no problems in the bedroom. I think they are invisible to my husband. and this in turn makes them less of a problem for me. When he whistles at me, or calls me sexy, while I am dressing/undressing, I realize that while I may think they are ugly, he does not. I will not wear shirts or bathing suits that show my belly in public though.
While I still think my belly is ugly, it tells my life story. Pregnant, weight loss, pregnant again, more weight loss. It shows that I had the strength to change myself for myself.
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"Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras
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