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Happens all the time mate. My suggestion is back off a bit when it occurs, but if she notices, the next action is up to her. If she gets creeped out that's her problem. If she doesn't mind, she can keep going.
Facts:
1. She is the one grindin'. And if you're the one who started it, and it kept going to the point of excitement, well she didn't exactly pull away.
2. You can't really help it. It's an involuntary action and involuntary means, I didn't do it on purpose. Human hormones at work people, nothing to get creeped out over.
3. If she finds it creepy, she can stop, slow down, or flat out walk away without it escalating based on #1 and #2. The onus is on the lady in this case to put a stop to it or keep it going.
Men do not read minds, but we do read body langauge. And body language at this point would be close proximity dancing, and sexy butt to crotch contact. That language spells hot with a capital sexy. So if that's the langauge, and we go to far, our bads, forgive us... sometimes we let your beauty distract us from being perfectly fluent.
Ladies, if you are creeped out by this, sorry, but remember you are the ones who caused it. In our minds, it's not a negative, a spontaneus wood is like saying "hi, I can't help but find you sexy".
I'm a man, and I'm not going to apologize for a girl getting creeped out if she turns me on. There are too many chemical reactions that you can't control at play here.
If you strike a match, expect it to burn.
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