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Originally Posted by NCB
My argument has remained the same. Its the pro-homosexual redefinition of marriage crowd that has been twisting themselves into pretezels defending their position. Homosexual "marriage" is unnatural and it should not turn upside down the very building block of our society, especially since they represent 3-5 % of the gen pop.
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All marriage is unnatural.
Granting homosexuals equal marriage rights will not in any way affect heterosexuals or their marriages, and won't turn the institution upside down.
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Originally Posted by NCB
As useless as many marriages turn out to be, the normal union can produce a productive family situation. With a homosexual "marriage", this is biologically impossible in any situation.
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A homosexual marriage can be a productive and functional family situation. Mine certainly is, as is that of my sister-in-law and her wife.
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A homosexual "marriage" will never have the stability of a natural, heterosexual one.
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Setting aside for a moment that there's no such thing as a "natural" marriage, why do you say this? I've been married four years and in a stable relationship with my wife for five. I know a good number of gay couples in long term stable relationships.
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You can spin all the statistics and celebrity couples you like, the differences in men and women are purposeful and no amount of put on feminine and masculine homosexual enthusiasm can imitate that.
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I'm trying to respond to this, but I can't seem to understand the point you're trying to make. If it's about gender roles, most of the homosexual couples I know don't adopt traditional gender roles within the marriage, or attempt to emulate the masculine-feminine dynamic that you seem to be implying. My wife and I are both femme. We're mostly just trying to be who we are and find a mode of expression that fits us as a person and a balance within the marriage that fits us as a couple. I imagine that's what most heterosexual individuals and couples do.
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Originally Posted by NCB
We'll just agree to disagree I guess. I'm not for denying anyone anything, I'm just agianst giving 3-5% of the genpop special rights that in turn revolutionize the way family structures are designed for the rest of us.
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You're wrong on both points. We don't want special rights, we want the same rights as heterosexuals. Extending civil marriage to homosexuals won't change anything about it for those in or entering heterosexual marriages.