I think some of you gals don't quite understand how a man's penis works after reading this thread.
a) Bump'n'Grind: Yeah, if you are involved in some butt grinding dancing, and then you STILL get "grossed out" by a guy getting hard, it shows you are immature and unreasonable. That kind of dancing is meant for the sole purpose of getting attention. Girls who say, "Oh, but I just like dancing" and dance like that... well... too bad! That's like taking your shirt and bra off and then being "grossed out" or pissed that a guy looking at you gets hard becuase you "just like being topless". Seriously?!
b) Other dancing. This is still not terribly reasonable area to get upset. Take the Tango for instance. There is no genital grinding. But the dances purpose is to be provocative. If I were doing the tango with an attractive woman, I could easily see myself getting a bit stiff. That's the POINT of the dance, sexual tension, longing, romance.
c) Frankly, it's not terribly difficult for a guy to sport wood just checking a chick out if she's really "his type". Sure this isn't a 100%. But still...
In the end, being "creeped out" buy a guys dick is just lame. If he was coming on to you, or being overbearing, or whipping it out... THAT would be creepy. A guy who has a boner for you? It's a physical compliment. Even guys who don't know how to compliment women can get that one right.
*sigh*
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Originally Posted by Leto
Aye, that's the rub.
This is where guys and girls differ.
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And even this isn't 100% the case. I can just have a good time, it doesn't mean I won't possibly get aroused. Getting aroused doesn't mean I expect to get laid. It just means I'm aroused. The difference is a girl can bump n grind and feel sexy and get a little wet and nobody is the wiser. A guy gets a chub and girls freak out. WTF double standard much?
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Originally Posted by james t kirk
To all the women / young girls who find it creepy.
Wait till you get older and it never happens.
Then you will be sad that no man gets a hard on over you anymore.
Enjoy it while it lasts.
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Isn't that the truth?!