you know what? we all have our opinion on what chivarly, gallantry and courtesy is. People were raised differently and believe different things. Just like when arguing politics just because "you" dont think a person should think a particular way isnt going to change how they feel.
Just like mine and Supple Cows differing opinions on what reading romance books means...to me escapism and enjoyment, to her its deplorable....nothing either of us says to the other is going to change our minds. Its one thing to let YOUR opinion be known, its another to belittle someone for how they think and I truly believe a line is being crossed here and some of us need to back up and just say....bless your heart....I dont agree with your thinking on the subject matter.
I prefer men to act like the gentleman that my daddy is, I was raised to believe that if I was respectful to people I deserved that respect back...the thing is I have to remember Im in a different age group than a lot of the "opposers" to this topic and I was raised a different way (ESPECIALLY being in the south).
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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