Tool, some definitions
On the one hand, she probably can be judged by the company she keeps. On the other hand, she might keep that company because of facets of her personality that she needs to work on and isn't in a good place to work on them right now. I'd say it's to esoteric to call on our parts- for you, if you like her then stay friends with her, if you feel her actions speak louder than her words, then do what you have to do.
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Sage knows our mythic history, King Arthur's and Sir Caradoc's
She answers hard acrostics, has a pretty taste for paradox
She quotes in elegiacs all the crimes of Heliogabalus
In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous
-C'hi