I'm not quite qualified to answer this, being that I'm quite a virgin, but when my gf and I are done with our physicality we both definitely enjoy the feeling of closeness, holding each other, telling each other how we feel, and just talking about life.
So, in answer to your questions: yes, I enjoy pillow talk. No, I could live without it and thus I don't -need- it, but I really enjoy it to the point where I'd be sad if we did just disconnect afterwards.
I think stereotypically girls need more pillow talk afterwards.
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