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Sensation problems
my girlfriend and i are having...sensation issues. we're not having sex (she's a very proper girl, no sex before marriage type girl) but when we get physical (to be specific, dry humping and grinding while making out) she tells me she doesn't feel appropriate sensation, or enough, down under. she doesn't know what exactly is causing this lack. honestly i don't either. We really do love each other and she always goes nuts whenever we're making out and stuff. she basically pounces on me the moment we're behind closed doors.we have loads of chemistry, we're all over each other all the time. but i think it might be a psychological problem. she often tries to convince herself that what we do sometimes is inappropriate, so i think it's possible that she's thinking too much about what we do and thus not getting turned on as much as she wants to. she is also concerned that it could be an issue in us working out in the long run, which i honestly don't think is a problem.
so my question is, what do we do about this lack of sensation? how do we address it? can we fix it?
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