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Originally Posted by shesus
When I was younger I was not really happy with my body. But I've learned to accept it after time. I think that people are hard on themselves and want to be perfect...that doesn't exist. There is always going to be something.
As for undressing in front of people...yea don't really have that problem. My husband is probably sick of seeing me naked.
Anyway, I think media plays a huge role in how people perceive themselves. It is unfair to compare yourself to airbrushed, altered through plastic surgery women. I don't do it anymore.
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Shesus, Personally I think you are gorgeous!.....
I swear that if I were single, and so was Sugah, I'd be askin you out on a date! I love your threads and posts. You make me think, and I like that in a person!
As far as the subject at hand, I actually have met some women that were "curvy" or "pudgy" or "slightly overweight" or whatever term you want to give it, that are quite comfortable with their bodies, and the way they look. But I do agree with the majority that MOST women are very conscious about their appearance, if not self-conscious. In my opinion it is a matter of ones up-bringing, and the people they surround themselves with, as well as the majority being the media. Face it, commercials pressure everyone, men and women alike to look like Ken and Barbie. You don't exactly see very many overweight models walking down the runway in Versace! lol.
Personally, I like all kinds of body styles. I see the beauty in the runway model, the porn star, AND the attractive "curvy" woman in the produce section of the grocery store. It makes no difference to me. I will admit that in the past several years, when it comes to "porn" I have been leaning much more toward the candid types. The snapshot of the girl on the beach, paparazzi type I guess you might call it. Untouched beauty, save for the hand of God.
Now saying that, if any of the ladies on this board would like an honest opinion from me, please PM me with an attached group of photographs for my personal use and evaluation of your beauty....
Shesus? Sugah? anyone else care to get an honest evaluation???