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Originally Posted by shesus
I know that can be a problem too. I was a bit concerned when I lost my weight that it would have an effect on our sex life. But it's better imo. I'm more flexible and I can still take it hard.
I don't think being fat is a problem unless you can't find the hole or the dick. But having to lift up fat to give a blowjob would be a turn-off to me. I think that it would be a personal preference. There are many people out there and everyone is attracted to someone different. There is always enough lovin' to go around. Growing up in WV taught me that. I never understood how some of those women found a man or multiple men to get them pregnant 5 times.
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Because we're all Heidi Klum in the dark.
When I was super-skinny (5'8", 113 lbs), my hip bones actually hurt the bf if he lain on top of me afterwards. When I was overweight (175 lbs), the issue was more my own self-image, so performance really suffered. Those that are truly obese aren't unaware and have probably been so most of their lives, so they work with it. I have friends that are large and they're freakin rabbits.
Personally, though, the largest person I ever had was the spouse when he was hovering 220, so I don't have experience with truly large guys, but when he'd lie on me, I couldn't breathe-he treated that like a joke and would press down harder.
Raeanna: Lifting the belly? That'd sure be a sign to buy a treadmill, I think....what a mood killer!