I guess we will have to agree that we disagree. I have been in the lifestyle for MANY years, and have run into a larger number of swingers I guess than you. I don't see as much of the problems that you have. Maybe it has to do with where I have been living, or something else, but where I have been, the swinging community is actually quite large in number, and have very few short term swingers where the female is the limited one. I actually find that in almost all the couples that we have met that have limitations, it is the MALE who tends to have the greater limits, yet still I see these same couples come back again and again and again to the weekly get-togethers, without incidents.
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