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Originally Posted by SugahBritches
I checked about 3 times and my questions weren't answered, but maybe they actually were anyway.
Well, it just seems to me if you were to go with swinging, you would just go all the way. If not, it's like foreplayin' with a virgin that isn't going to give it up.
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OK. let me know what I missed in your questions. maybe I wasn't reading them right. I hate leaving people wondering.
As far as how far people go, its a matter of personal preference. "Swinging" as a term used, does not specify that you are swapping full sex partners. It is a "tag" if you will, for people that allow people outside of the relationship to enter into a sexual encounter, without the emotional attachment that is involved in a relationship. some couples like the one that I knew in Texas, were only into soft-swapping, for those that don't understand what soft-swap is, it's where there is no intercourse involved, and typically is considered oral-sex only. This couple had a fetish where the woman was turned on by watching another woman perform on her husband orally, while she did the same to another man. They had no desire to go any furthur, not that it was a "limit" set where they agreed that nothing else was to happen, but simply a desire that went no further.
Think of this example in a BDSM environment:
Couple "A" likes to go all out, they enjoy the control issues, as well as whips, handcuffs, evil-sticks, leather goods, etc.
Couple "B" likes to spank each other, but not wanting to use whips and chains, etc...
This doesn't mean that Couple "B" is having issues with their relationship, and can't go all out, for fear of hurting their S.O. It simply means that that is what the two of them like to do, nothing furthur.
Does that help any?