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The swinging community isn't that large and these people rarely stick around long.
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I am not sure where you get the idea that it isnt that large. I know of atleast a hundred websites in the US alone that have thousands of members. I know a VERY large number of them. Most of course dont want this thing toget out about them, which is understandable, not many couples are as open about it as others. I am not saying that everyone is secure, or that you wont find a large number of couples hopeing that swinging will bring their relationship back together....I have seen it as well. I just am saying that I know of many more couples that suceed, even with limitations put on what can be done. On of my best friends back in Texas that we didn't swing with, but were good friends with, they are a "soft-swap" couple. They have always been that way, and continue to be that way. It is what works for them. They just seek out other couples that are looking for the same thing. No, swinging isn't for everyone, but it does NOT mean that if you are swinging, but put limits on what can and can't be done, that your relationship is in trouble. That is just not true. As I said before...it HAS to be looked at on a couple by couple basis.