What you don't understand Toaster is that from waaaay back before you and I were even thought of, there was a standard on how either women were to perform or act. Not saying that it was all "men" that had this concept for I think there were many women that contributed to the "standard".
It's not that this thread is pointing out a concept that is right or wrong but only that it "is". I will say this, this thread was not intended to offend either party (male or female) but I can see that sometimes one can perceive it that way.
I can elaborate more, if you wish. But, as some know.......I can get bogged down in too much detail. And I surely don't want to bore anyone.
