I've learned to focus on my assets and kinda camoflage that which I don't want to show. They say after your 50's you go downhill. Well, I find that with most women, they look prettier. But, you are right in thinking that somethings are just not going to change............like gravity and crows feet!
I laugh when I hear that phrase, "Older women are like expensive wine, they age to perfection." HA! Must be our personality!