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Originally Posted by ngdawg
But do you hold yourself up in comparison against the characters shown in porn media or media in general? The men I know kind of do-they feel they're not in shape enough or not 'big' enough or not young enough, yet when I lament the passing of my former younger physical self, they tell me to 'knock it off'.
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I did at one time. When I recognize a male shape that is superior to mine, I will occasionally think that I should work harder. As for the men that tell you to know it off? Don't let them fool you, everyone laments. I'm not sure how the volume of lament between the sexes compares - which is what I took to be the basis of this thread - but there is lament on either side of the Y chromosome. When they tell you to knock it off, it might be becuase they are trying to bury their own feelings on the subject.