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Originally Posted by MichaelFarker
No matter what we only have sex occasionally.
It makes an otherwise wonderful life pretty frustrating.
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Have you mentioned to her that you would like to have sex more?
The one thing that I have found (in our early years) was the fact that we didn't see each other much. The boss worked out of town alot so when he came home, it seemed that we really stayed in tune with each other. I don't know if it made a difference in staying together so long (over 26 yrs), but it seemed like it helped IMO.
But, it's easy to let life kinda pass you by. I think that as long as you stay in communication and are able to read (or stay in tune) your spouse's/partner's moods then you know what they are thinking without guessing. I personally know when the boss is .........well, "in the mood" and I try and meet that need, even if I might at the time....not be in that mood. But, once in the throws..........well....I ain't complainin' and I'm pretty much in the mood he is in!
Sometimes women need more of the romancing method Micheal. I know it seems like a little bit more "work", but if you love her.... and it's worth it, you won't really regret it.
