Hmm...that does seem to be rather strange behavior for someone in college. But anyway, my advice is this. Perhaps you should mention that for someone who claims you are gay that he sure seems to be obsessed with you (someone who he thinks is gay). After you say that, he'll do either one of two things. He'll laugh or he'll take a swing. Personally, I would kick his ass. Just make sure he takes the first swing. With guys like this, telling them they need to back off, etc usually doesn't work. Just my 2 cents.
That being said, I actually had a roomate someone like that in college. Not as mean. But she was a definite bitch and liked to badmouth me in front of others for some reason. She never did it in front of me though. I just heard about it second hand. Looking back on it, I wish I had kicked her ass instead of being a complete wimp about the whole thing.
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