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Originally Posted by opus123
Some poly and swing people have a rule that their extra partners cannot be from the same city that they are in and that rule keeps your main primary relationship special. Other people also have rules that you won't use the same labels on all your partners. "Sweetie, honey, weasle, muffinbaby, etc...". Some people even have a rule against having extra partners even in the same state. Rhode Island and Connecticut are small states and to restrict things in a good way, that is the rule people can use. Another swing couple I know have a sci-fi convention rule, where they only swing with other sci-fi friends that they have met and so they only have sex outside their marriage once or twice a year. (^:
Jonathan
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I think when you have a bunch of rules, odds are you are not really 'ready' for that kind of activity.
While I can understand people in sensative jobs afraid of being 'outed' and going out of state etc, if you need to do it with total strangers you will never see again for fear of it changing the feelings you have for your spouse, odds are you shouldn't be doing it in the first place.