Thanks for some of the tips on here - though I'm years away from where I want a sexual relationship, it's nice just reading about some of the techniques you guys go through to keep a healthful physicality in a relationship. Communication, it seems, is key (as I would expect for any aspect of a relationship).
When the time comes for it, I think I'll be very happy with the frequency my gf and I will have. Previous to knowing her and coming to this forum, I was under the impression that all women were like some of the 'horror stories' on this forum - once a month if you're lucky and you behave perfectly for that time.
I'm sorta glad I won't have to worry about that in the future
. Her drive is comparable to mine, which while nowhere near some of yours, is quite healthy. I mean, 20 times a week would be pretty rad for a bit but I think I just lack the endurance to do that for an extended period of time.