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Originally Posted by Ustwo
Sounds like we are moving into the Hot Wife catigory here.
From what I gather most these guys are not really interested in other women , and I'm not sure if MFM qualifies as a 'hot wife' but its a wikki piece. Can't say I understand it, but it seems to work for people.
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Well, I just want her to get her first consentual fling out of the way.
There are several reasons for this, but the conversation that made me decide that she needs to have one required fling went something like this:
Me: "Honey, if you had a fling this week, and I got home next week, I know you would tell me about it, but how would you tell me?"
She: "I don't know"
Me: "Would you cry when you told me?"
She: "Maybe"
Me: "But you would tell me, right?"
She: "Yes, of course. I promised I would and I would"
Me: "But you don't know if you would cry or not?"
She: "No"
There were a couple of other reasons, that I can't really get into now, that were making me start to think that she might need to have one fling and get it out of the way, but this conversation was the clincher.
Later I asked her: After you have that first fling, will the next one, even if it is years later, will it be easier to tell me about?
And she said: Oh yes, of course! It will be much easier.
That is when I told her that she needs to have one. After her required fling, she can have as few or as many as she likes, but she must have one.
As I said, there are a few other reasons. One other reason, a far less important reason, is that when she cheated on me, the sex was so bad. She said she deserved bad sex for doing something so immoral and stupid, but I told her she never deserves bad, boring sex. If she was going to risk our marriage, the sex should have at least been worth it.
But as I said, that is a less important reason. The reason above was the clincher, and there are two other reasons that I just cannot get into, but I can tell you that the other two reasons have nothing to do with me wanting to watch.