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Honestly, I think the "putting a term on it" will cause more problems then it's worth.
I generally am a "term" person and I try to find the proper name/name with the right characteristics to go along with what's going on. However, I also found that term ended up limiting what I was doing, made me more confused, caused more guilt, etc. So, if you're anything like me, forget the term.
As for you and your wife, honestly, what works in each relationship is different for every single couple out there. It's hard to believe that only the few terms that exist are acceptable and encompass all the issues and situations that come along with relationships.
I guess the most I can say is: kudos for you and your wife. As long as the communication is clear and honest, there shouldn't be any problems.
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