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[ Apache, maybe you and you husband could go to a party and just watch. See how you two feel, and then if you are ready, consider what is called "soft-swap" which is where the only swapping you do is together, in the same room, but only oral is allowed. .
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Well a couple that we met through a swinger site and the couple that I have become comfortable enough to be with when and if the time comes has invited us to come to their house to just watch. I could deal with that, and I have decided that I am comfortable with same room oral. Now I just have to get over other issues I'm dealing with. example, being so shy, having low self esteem about my body (even though the other man has seen me on web cam many times and in pictures and is still intrested, lol) The other couple has also suggested that for the first time there is no swapping involved at all, me and my hubby are together and they are, just to get me more comfortable with everything. That might work, but who knows with me. lol
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