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Originally Posted by Ustwo
Thats what most open marriages I hear about turn into which is why I think its so often a bad idea. Often its brought up by the man, but the man quickly finds out how much easier it is for a woman to find casual sex.
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This paragraph bears repeating and emphasis. I have a friend who has all kinds of guys on the side while her husband is deployed overseas. And as much as she loves to reassure me that it's all good, I'm having a hell of a tough time buying it.
If you can look in the mirror and go to bed and feel that everything's alright, by all means, don't let my unimformed prejudice about the situation stop you from doing it. But if there's any whisper of doubt anywhere in your brain, stand up for yourself. There's nothing worse than a relationship in which one person is taking advantage of the other and the other doesn't put his foot down. You're better off not being in a relationship than you are being in a relationship in which you're not respected and have no control.