Well first you made a mistake with that whold friend thing. No guy just wants to be friends with a girl, and there is nothing over controlling about telling your wife not to see the guy, but thats over and done.
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Our marriage is now thus: she will not ever be on the prowl looking for sex outside of our marriage. Ever. She has never been slutty in her life, and there is no reason she would start now. If she ever gets into a situation where there is a guy who is 'dangerous', she has made me three promises:
1) She will be safe and use protection
2) She will let me know as soon as possible
3) She will never, ever leave me for a fling.
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I dont' follow this really. This sounds like you gave her permission to flirt and then have sex with the guy if she thinks he will rape her.
But anyways what matters is what works for you. For me an open marriage is not something either of us are interested in, and while we have no problem with extramarital sex we would never be comfortable with a true open marriage.