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Originally Posted by Charlatan
It doesn't take being an Alpha male to get women... it takes confidence.
To stretch this tired analogy, you can be some greek letter between Alpha and Omega. You do not have to be an overconfident jerk and you don't have to be a mama's boy... you just need to have the confidence to act on what you want.
I say it enough... it's all about balance. You need to know when to push your agenda ahead of others and when to step back and let someone else do their thing. You need to know when to be forceful and when to lay off. You don't have to be a nice guy all the time, just when it matters (and vice versa).
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This is very true because alpha male does NOT apply to humans. I used it because its a term people use normally incorectly to mean a confident, dominant male. A true alpha would be like the alpha in a wolf pack that does ALL the mating, and a true omega would be the one eating last, etc. This does not work in humans, our basic system is a lot more complex.