Originally Posted by abaya

nce again, I would not be marrying someone who believed any differently.

Who cares about what guys are "supposed" to be? Be who you are, without fear or insecurity, and they will come. But first you have to work on that insecurity... and I highly recommend counseling, too. I've been there, plenty of my male and female friends have been there, and I respect people more who go to counseling than those who adamantly refuse.

But that's just my opinion.