I guess I've just never been the hot cheerleader type.
My current boyfriend is pretty nice. I talk to him about everything. We even talk about feelings. ***gasp*** But we probably are the exception since in general I'm more the uh...male one in the relationship. He was the one who whined about romance in the beginning not me. Though that's not always the case. In some instances he becomes the male and I revert back to the female role. Not sure if that makes much sense.
Oh and he's not a high status male. I have more status than he does. I've always been very independent. I tend to see high status males as being too busy to have any real time for the women in their lives. That does not appeal to me.