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Ustwo · 09-22-2006, 06:13 AM

What college are you going to?

I can't imagine people acting like grade school bullies in college. I was a skinny geek my first two years of college, was too nice to women (figured that one out junior year), had only a few friends, yet no one was picking on me or threatening to kick my ass for waving.

A summer of weight lifting and my ephinany about the nature of women got me pretty much on track.

I went to a VERY large university. Nice thing about a big school is no matter what you are like, odds are there is a club, group, that sort of thing of like minded people and you have to go to an extreme to stand out.

So now for the tough love.

Quit being such a wuss. You can be an alpha male or you can be the omega, its up to you, but the problem with kicked puppies is that they allow themselves to be kicked.

So you need to take charge of your life and live it for you. Being nice is fine, you can still be nice, but there is such a thing as being too nice, its an invitation to be exploited and made fun of.

So hit the gym. Its boring and dull yea sure, but it beats being lifes doormat. This isn't so you can beat people up, its to get some self confidence in your system. I can tell you how many fights I've gotten into since being in better shape and how many people have thtreatened me, zero. Its not that I look super buff, its that I don't have the 'NOT THE FACE' body language, its self confidence. Don't be afraid to think of yourself first. You need to do this at times.

09-22-2006, 06:13 AM	#4 (permalink)
Ustwo Pissing in the cornflakes	What college are you going to? I can't imagine people acting like grade school bullies in college. I was a skinny geek my first two years of college, was too nice to women (figured that one out junior year), had only a few friends, yet no one was picking on me or threatening to kick my ass for waving. A summer of weight lifting and my ephinany about the nature of women got me pretty much on track. I went to a VERY large university. Nice thing about a big school is no matter what you are like, odds are there is a club, group, that sort of thing of like minded people and you have to go to an extreme to stand out. So now for the tough love. Quit being such a wuss. You can be an alpha male or you can be the omega, its up to you, but the problem with kicked puppies is that they allow themselves to be kicked. So you need to take charge of your life and live it for you. Being nice is fine, you can still be nice, but there is such a thing as being too nice, its an invitation to be exploited and made fun of. So hit the gym. Its boring and dull yea sure, but it beats being lifes doormat. This isn't so you can beat people up, its to get some self confidence in your system. I can tell you how many fights I've gotten into since being in better shape and how many people have thtreatened me, zero. Its not that I look super buff, its that I don't have the 'NOT THE FACE' body language, its self confidence. Don't be afraid to think of yourself first. You need to do this at times. __________________ Agents of the enemies who hold office in our own government, who attempt to eliminate our "freedoms" and our "right to know" are posting among us, I fear.....on this very forum. - host Obama - Know a Man by the friends he keeps. Last edited by Ustwo; 09-22-2006 at 06:35 AM..