I have to take issue with the statement " I would be LIVID if my man told me he wanted me to have ANY kind of plastic surgery"...let me explain why
there ARE some things that NEED to be done for medical reasons, take me for example. I have known since I was in my 20's that I needed breast reduction. Rashes that wont go away, under boob cysts that get infected, constant marks from my bra, back aches so badly I cannot stand at a kitchen sink for 3 minutes (literally) without hurting so badly I have to take pain meds, not being able to go shopping anywhere with concrete floors, this includes grocery stores without taking something for pain, migraines, the non ability to exercise from boob pain....I was being chicken about plastic surgery.
After the breast cancer scare earlier this year 3 different dr's wanted me to consult with a plastic surgeon to get this taken care of. I made an appt....called in June, they could see me the end of August. For a week I tried to convince Dave I was too scared to go, he point blank flat out told me...I will tie you up and put you in the car and take you myself if you dont....Im ordering you to go.
As most people know...the insurance company approved the surgery and next month I will have between 650-800 grams per boob removed (wont know until he gets in and see's exactly what the inside of my boobs consist of)
so yes in a way Dave WANTS me to go. I realize in my case its for MY own good and I was being stubborn....I just wanted to point out that a husband CAN have a legitimate excuse for asking you to have plastic surgery. I will have smaller perkier boobs....I will for the first time since I was a teenager be able to exercise...on the downside, I will prob have boobs that keep me from future "exhibition" posts that include my boobs because of the scarring....Dave will have to look at permanent scars on them for the rest of my life, and yet he wants it.
As for enhancement...that guy should be accused of mental cruelty
sorry for the rant...like I said, since you didnt qualify your statement I thought I would defend NEEDED plastic surgery
