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I don't think friends should remain judgment free, but I do think that everyone's inner circle should be there for that person and not give out gossip or any other harmful info.
I have 4 friends I can tell anything at all to and they won't tell a soul. The question is, do I want to share something huge with them? Usually the answer is no... I tend to not stress out over anything and generally don't have the desire to share secrets. You know, because then they wouldn't be secrets. So while I have the ability, I think I've used it only once or twice.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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