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hot sauce as a punishment is just wrong. That kid will grow up not liking spicy food and alot of really good food is spicy! just spank the kid a whack on the butt isnt going to warp a kid for life i dont care what anyone says. Dont beat the kid dont hit them in the face or arm or anything just the kids butt and make sure they know why. Just enough to sting and make them think twice before doing something stupid again. I dont think anything related to food should be used as punishment or reward for anything a kid does. that will make them develop some unwanted ways of thinking. Dont need some kid that grows up to be 500lbs chowing down on cake because he thinks hes a good person and deserves it and you dont need someone starving themself to death because they feel guilty.
Classic punishments work stick with them. A spanking if they do something really wrong. Ground them from the things they enjoy doing for stuff they do wrong thats not going to get anyone hurt. But dont just toss them in the kids room and let them watch tv and play video games. dont let them watch tv dont let them play with toys. Give them a good book to read instead. Maybe they will learn to enjoy it. If they cant read yet sit down with them and teach them how! If they cant read yet and you have been teaching them how already give them a pencil and tell them to draw not a coloring book though make them do something creative not just fill in color between the lines.
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