I trust Grace absolutely with anything I tell her. It's one of the benefits of being gay--my lover is my best girlfriend, so I get what most women get from outside friendship with other women within my marriage.
Sissy, to a somewhat lesser extent. I don't dump the difficult stuff on her, but I do trust her not to gossip or share things about me that she knows would hurt me if she were to do so.
One other person I trust, and have trusted some of the difficult stuff with. That's it. One I trust absolutely, two I trust never to intentionally or carelessly hurt me. The sum total of all my friends, or even people I know on more than a purely casual basis.
Gilda
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