Well my hubby and I have talked about it. And talked about. And talked about it, for awhile now actually. Several years ago we started talking about it but I never would have thought of actually doing it, it was all fantasy for me I guess. Then we took another step forward and registered on swinger sites to meet people. Just to see. A way to kind of talk to people already in the lifestyle. It helped. Some of the couples we met said that they talked about it for a year some even more before actually doing it. There are no jealousy issues for me or my hubby. I want to see him with another woman, and he is dying to see me with another man it seems like, lol. But the problem I have is the whole thing of seperating making love to just having sex. Until I can get over that issue, it won't be happening with us.
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