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There are no hard set rules. Some people get all overly analytical about it, like, "If she put out for ME on the first date, who else has she put out for"
I never ask about numbers either.
Truth be told, it turns me on big time to hear the woman I am dating at the time talk about her previous sexual experiences. Some of the most intriguing conversations I have had with women have been about their sexual history. And boy, sometimes, it's amazing.
To the topic at hand.
My last GF and I had sex on the first date - we lasted 2 years and broke up because she drank too much.
The GF and I before that had anonomous sex - I had chatted with her over the net on a dating site, she came to my place, got undressed in my bedroom while I waited in another room, then I came in, blind folded her, collared her, leashed her, and took her. We were together a year and broke up because my dad died and she couldn't handle my sorrow.
The GF before that, we were together 7 years, and yes, we had sex on the fist (albeit conventional) date
GF before that lasted 3 years, and yes, we had sex on the second date, though we were giving each other head on the first date.
The love of my life GF (in University) knew each other for a few months, then after it became "official" (I was so by the book back then) it took 4 days to get naked with her, and 3 weeks to complete the deed.
I have dated other women for 3 or 4 weeks and nothing much was happening, so I lost interest.
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