opus123

My wife and I have been poly for over 10 years now and she has gone to swing clubs before with her boyfriends. She likes the pool and hot tubs and ambiance. Luckily we have one of the worlds best clubs nearby us. Anyway, she only goes once a year and for women, it is a great experience since the numbers are slightly kept up for women so that they don't get overwhelmed by too many men in the room.

I know poly people who act like swingers and generally are more into sex on the weekend. I know swingers who live with their extra partners and that seems more poly, but really I don't mind what labels use. I personally choose poly because I live less hidden most everywhere and I like to really bond long term with my partners and lovers. Swing clubs are kind pricey for men, but can be worthwhile once you make a few friends. Swing clubs should offer a tour before you join them. That seems only fair. Also they should have a good website that has a calendar of events. (That is what my wife says.)

But with poly, swing, or baseball leagues... the rules should be written down on what is ok and not ok. *smile*

Jonathan

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