I would say the worst thing I ever did to someone was not such a horrible thing to do since I felt it was the right response. However it was probably some major over reaction on my part.
I was at a party and this guy was acting an ass to just about everyone especially his Girl whom he was very beligerant to. Subsequently I knew her fairly well from school as we shared some classes and we were on a pretty good conversational relationship. We quized each other on stuff time to time because apparently I'm non-threatening... well... the proof is in the pudding.
Anyway, he was being a complete ass to everyone and as the night progressed he got drunker and drunker. Eventually he decided he wanted some loving and she wasn't about to give him anything. He tried to force the issue... I interjected on her behalf... a fight insued.... he spent a few days in the hospital after I threw him through the window of the front of the home the party was taking place in.
I regret hurting him as badly as I did. However I justify it in that I might have stoped a rape in the process. Luckily there were no charges pressed and I offered to pay to repair the window (which was expensive... ack).
That was one of only two physical conflicts I have been in, the other was self defense as someone tried to rob me. But that one I acted on my own, I never want to hurt anyone but that one I felt had to happen.
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