Whenever I am around ktspktsp, I think about sex a lot. I like to have it at least once a day, more if we can fit in it.
When we are apart, however, I don't think often about sex. Unless he is in a kinky mood online and we want to have some webcam action... I get turned on in a hurry, in that case!
We started off with him having a higher sex drive, I think... he wanted it all the time, and I would have preferred every few days. After 2.5 years I think we have kind of switched. But usually when we go through stressful periods, that's when his sex drive drops and mine increases because it's a way of releasing tension for me and connecting with him. It's at those times that I think the frustration is higher, but otherwise we just go back and forth, trading off on the drive level.