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Man, that shit really sucks. I was dumped by "everything" 1 year and 30 days ago. I pretty much thought my life was over, although I had the advantage of not being at the same school as her anymore. It seems like you've already taken some pretty good steps so far, keeping yourself busy is an absolute must. Staying away from drugs or alcohol abuse is another must. Skipping classes = bad though. Keep on going to them, they will help distract you from thinking about her.
Also get out to some campus social events, meet new people and make new friends, start forming a new life, instead of trying to live your old life without her. If you start doing new stuff, and creating a new life that does not involve her, it will be a lot less painfull than trying to live your old life and feeling the loss of her everyday. Oh yeah, also try to stop thinking about her as the "love of your life", thats a pessimistic attitude. You will meet someone else, and you will wind up loving that person just as much as you love your ex, if not more so. Life is not set in stone, you don't just have 1 chance at finding someone to spend your life with.
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