While it is definitely unlikely, I would still not share currently-being-used glasses or utensils due to the open sore. Hugging your kids? Fine. Kissing on the forehead? Fine. (Really.) Oh, btw, that is a common symptom of HIV+ people - lots of them get lesions. It's not necessarily due to a separate STD.
Just remember - he might be/have been promiscuous, but this is still a death sentence just for having some sex. Way too harsh a penalty. I'm glad that you consider him "your freeloader" - I'm sure he's pretty nervous about being near family again too, and can use all the positivity you've got.
Good luck!
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