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Originally Posted by lindalove
I have a lesbian friend who told me she believes everyone is somewhere on the hetero-homo spectrum, with no one being completely at one end or the other.
Sunday afternoon I conversed at length with a gay customer and it was interesting to watch him get "uncomfortable." In other words, he was responding to me in a way that a gay should not, and he knew it.
What do you all think?
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OMG! This is good....I too, believe that we all have both hetero-homo tendencies, which make us react to others the way that we do. It's called "being human" and Ahem; tuned in, esp. in the sexually attractive way. I was terribly in love with an extremly 100% gay man many years ago because he was such an amazing graphic artist & cultural talent and was so very interesting (and FUN!) on many, many levels. My life was enriched because he was my friend. As for your statement that your customer was clearly "uncomfortable", all I can say is that you must be rather young & naive thinking that you & your
femininity were the cause of this gay guys feelings of "uncomfortability". That's so one-sided & bias.. Gay guys LOVE to flirt, they know that us sexy, open females always think we might be the one to "cure" them. And it's alot of fun. After 16 years of living near San Franscisco, CA. trust me dear heart.... It's just part of the game of life. Enjoy it while you can. Friends are friends. Period.