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Originally Posted by uptown
If my spouse doesn't want me, why should I stay sexless ?
lol, if a person has a low sex drive and doesn't value the experience or think it important to a relationship why should they care if their partner gets it elsewhere ?
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You could always-- I dunno'-- Find out why your partner has had a sudden decrease in his/her sex drive instead of running out and finding someone else. Besides, I'm a strong believer in karma; What comes around goes around.
Anywho, if you asked me this question a few months ago I would have said that you can be driven to cheat, but I'm not that naive anymore. Unless someone holds a gun to your head and forces you to cheat, then it's a conscious decision to do so. If you're relationship is going that badly, then you should be responsible enough to end it before going out and sleeping with someone else.